Here you have a small snippet of an article taken from CHILDREN'S GUIDE .
The involvement of parents, both harassed and the harasser, compared to the occurrence of this phenomenon is fundamentally necessary. Follow some tips on how parents should act:
When your child is the victim : If parents suspect their child is harassed or bullied, do not tell that deal to solve their own problems. It is extremely positive as you provide a channel of communication and trust with your child so that he feels comfortable talking to you about all the good and bad that is living. If your child is a victim, talk to him, and promising to help solve this problem. Tell him not to blame for this situation. Do not make him feel guilty or leave him. Always try something else. Together with his son, discuss the issue. Make her feel wrapped, without encouraging dependency. Involve as many people as possible and follow these tips:
1 - investigate in detail what is happening. Listen to your child and do not interrupt. Let vent your pain.
2 - Contact your child's teacher with the school board and the head teacher to alert them what is happening and ask for their cooperation in the investigation and resolution of the facts.
3 - not encourage your child to be aggressive or take revenge. Worsen the situation.
4 - Discuss assertive alternatives to respond to bullies and practice your responses with your child.
5 - If the harassment continues, get ready to contact an attorney.
6 - Depending on the degree of anxiety and fear that your child is involved, look for a psychologist to help you overcome this trauma. But never forget that the best help in these cases is the family.
7 - Stay calm and do not show all your concern. Show determination and positivity.
When your child is the bully : It is very difficult for many parents to recognize something negative in their children's behavior, so it is very important, when the case is detected, they work directly with school to solve this problem, an immediate, since normally the problem of misconduct usually grows as a snowball. What can parents ever the stalker is using violence to repair the problem. Can be accused of abuse toward his son.
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